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healingmyhurt
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I was just wondering, what are some physical(sexual/non sexual) things you can do in a relationship to kind of 'spice' things up a bit...we haven't had sex and we are only fiften so nothing too extreme, thanks!
Also, do guys like holding hands and cute things like that or...?
Thanks :3

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Heather
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Unless you want to hold the hands of every guy, it probably doesn't matter what "guys" think. In other words, not only is there not any one thing all men like or don't like, you probably want to know if they guy YOU like or are with likes that, right? If so, the way to find out is to ask him. [Smile]

After all, he knows what he likes: he's the expert on what he likes!

When you say 'spice things up," can you explain what you mean? Typically when people ask that, it's when they are feeling that their sexual life has become boring or stalled out in some way, and based on your other thread, it doesn't sound like you feel that way about it.

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healingmyhurt
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Hey again. Lol [Wink]
And well, I have asked him what he likes but he is quite vague, or when he says what he wants; its something to do with me, not him. like, he'll want to suck my boobs or pash me, but he never tells me what he wants me to do his body, ya know? We are very open with eachother and I think, personally, he doesnt like the way he looks(he has told me that several times) and he said he would rather focus on making me feel good...rather than him feel good

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Heather
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Well, so maybe you give him a little more time to get comfortable with you, time it sounds like he might need?

Really, no one can know what he wants and likes but him. But he might need more time to build trust and feel comfortable to share that with you.

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