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alinoa
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me(girl) and my friend (boy) talk a lot on facebook we often get sleepless nights and we talk to eachother about everything in life..but we also like to talk dirty a lot..like he asks what i'm wearing..he talks about kissing etc..and i really like to turn him on!!! it's fun!! but we're friends and i fear that in the end he would disrespect me because i talk dirty with him , he would say that i'm a bitch even though he told that i am not...but i don't know why i get those thoughts...my friends tell me that he likes me but I tell myself that he's being kind because he gets to talk dirty with a girl that ,he knows, doesn't do that with anybody!!!
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September
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We don't really use the word slut around here because, well, we don't think it is a very useful concept. We don't think it's fair to judge women (or anyone, really) based on their sexual choices. We are all individuals and we all make our own choices, and ideally we do them based on what we feel most comfortable and safe with.

So, do you enjoy talking to this boy? Do you feel comfortable talking to him, and do you feel like he treats you with respect? If so, then there is no reason to feel bad or concerned about this.

If you don't feel comfortable, or if you feel that he is not treating you with care and respect, then let's talk about how you can deal with that.

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Johanna
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