i want to be able to talk to my mom about stuff i am just not sure if i should or how to... like i dont want to be like oh yeah mom im not a virgin any more. i feel like she will kill me. my mom and i have a pretty open relationship though and i can usualy talk to her about anything, but for some reason i feel like i cant talk to her about sex. i have no other adult to talk to about it and some times i just want some one there for me. i dont know what to do help me please
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Well what makes you think that your mother will react in such a negative way? Have you two had conversations like this before? How have these conversations gone?
How is your relationship with your mother outside of things like this? Are you very able to talk to her about non-loaded things, say like how you day was, or what you want for supper? Or do those conversations usually conclude in fighting?
It might help to think, what is the worst-case scenario; what is the worst thing you mother could say or do if you did tell her?
I am ME and that is the only label I need. Posts: 859 | From: Ontario, Canada | Registered: Oct 2009
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