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melissa1506
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Well, you guys have helped me in my last 7 year relationship that has ended and we tried to get back but he got another girl pregnant. So I am past that ( not over it still hurts) but am over the getting back factor and realize now it will never happen and better for us both. So i began to move on and start going out and dating.

So about a month ago I ran into this guy in a club who was an old flame from 10 years ago. We exchanged numbers. He text me everyday since then, but I made no attempts to hang out until this month because I wasnt ready yet.
So this month we hung out, and hit it off, and there is huge attraction present bw us both.

There always was being we did have a small relationship 10 years ago.

So now we are currently in a sexual relationship, and I find out he has a gf,

RUN??? or what? please help!

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Saffron Raymie
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If I may ask something to gain information; how did you find out about his other relationship?

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welll....his ( the guy im seeing ) best friend told me. So this made me approach the guy and he said they r together 5 motnhs now.
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i dont want to be his side piece...but now i know he has a gf but i m getting feelings. how do i bring this up?
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Saffron Raymie
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Hi again melissa - welcome back to Scarleteen! I remember your other thread. [Smile]

Have you and this guy made agreements to be exclusive - and not see anyone else?

It seems that this guy has not been honest with you about his other relationship. That seems like a big warning that this guy isn't the best person to be getting into a relationship with.

I know how much that sucks, given your feelings, but it might be better to break it off before you get more invested in this relationship.

What do you think?

[ 10-10-2011, 05:48 AM: Message edited by: RaeRay2112 ]

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