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ok so there's a guy that im attracted to in school, he calls me all kind of cute names and stuff and we been texting lately he even told me he sees a future between us. Lately his friend and other people been going up to him and telling him things about me, like i been going around saying that we go out which i didn't, so he been acting a little different lately he doesn't text me like he used even though i went up to him and ask him if them questions were a problem but he said no is cool. Now he been lying to me lately like we were texting the whole day but when i got to ask him if we were going to spend some time together he never replied even thought he told me to text him to make plans and sometimes he ignores me but contradict himself because when i see him in the halls he says text me. We were making plans to spend time after school together, when i saw him he was with his friends so i waited but he walk right passed me but i don't know if because he wants me to say approach him first or should i just leave it alone, What should i do?
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Sounds like he's really not making an effort to be with you. You should talk to him privately, clear up all the things his friends have told him. Stand up for yourself because if you don't you might regret it later on. There could be a chance of being with him that you might lose if you don't talk to him in person
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i did talk to him about the situation and asked him if that was a problem but he denied it and said is cool
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A guy who outright ignores you, even just some of the time, is usually either not actually very interested in you, or not actually a very nice guy. If he says he's cool with what his friends were saying, but is still acting weird around you, you might want to let this one go. If he IS actually interested, and isn't just stringing you along, he'll come back.
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