My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost two years now. But known eachother for about 5. The first couple of months we started going out everything was perfect because before him i was in a relationship with a loser.. all he wanted was sex in my opinion and i didn't let that happen.. so my boyfriend now got me to fall for him while i was with that loser..
The first couple of months were good, he always used to tell me i'm so pretty and whenever i'd get ready to go out anywhere he'd compliment on it.. and he always would show me to the world .. i guess you could say.. ?
Me & him have had some issues within our relationship . A couple lies.. and they were pretty big lies about girls that he was talking to(sexually) & not the way you should be talking to anyone.. and he lied about that until i showed him i knew. That happened last year within 4 months i'd say?
The problem i'm having now.. is well.. i still haven't gotten over it.. i don't seem good enough, and i'm not that type of girl i'm a strong independent type of girl. But yet, i feel i'm not pretty enough for him if he had to talk to those girls.. and now he really never compliments how i look and everytime he looks at another girl i get angry.. it's not because he's glancing at a girl it's because i keep thinking of him lying about something else now.
This is so hard because about 6 months ago we had a long talk about all of this and he was mad at me! For not getting over it, it's a big deal to me. I'm a VERY honest person.
-He's the kinda boyfriend that's great, but jealousy is there with him.. and controlling behaviors. (just thought i'd say that to help any of you when ur reading this).
This all comes down to.. what should i do.. ? Please don't say talk to him, because we've done that a lot and he still doesn't get it, he gets actually frustrated and angry to the point where i'm crying because he makes me feel so bad..
what's going on with me, i'm never like this
please give any advice you can.
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