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So there is this guy who I have been friends with for over a year and here recently, he's been flirting with me. I like him for more than a friend but there is not physical attraction. I feel like a horrible person for this. He's a really sweet guy and is a great person. Does the fact that I'm not physically attracted make me a horrible person, even though I really like his personality?
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No, not being physically attracted to someone doesn't make you a bad person. We're all interested in different people for different reasons, and you won't be physically attracted to everyone you meet, no matter how much you like them as a person.
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Is it normal for me to feel this way? I'm getting so many inputs from various people and I'm so confused
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It's absolutely normal. There's nothing wrong with liking someone but just not being physically attracted to them. We all have those people at some point.
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