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Love to love
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Alright so three weeks ago this sunday I met a guy. We've been none stop talking for these three weeks, we hung out for the first time last weekend. Well he's really busy with work and I understand that, and when the weekend comes around he has plans, and then at the last minute will ask me to hang and then just say nevermind. I'm pretty sure he's interested in me, by the things he's said; by the way we talk all the time; how he kissed me when we hung out. I'm usually always the one to ask to hang out, and he usually says he has plans - but he still seems interested in talking. He'll text me, he'll say the sweetest things and I really enjoy talking to him, its just frustrating to not see him and be the only one asking to hang out.

I'm not sure what to do, I'm really interested in him so I'm not just going to give up, but it's starting to make me feel bad that I ask to hang out he says maybe, and then just says no he can't. Maybe I'm just being a girl and over thinking it because it's only been a week. But I've litereally have had my heart broken over and over since september and I'm just afraid of that happening again.. Especially because I'm the one doing all the work to hang.

How do I address the hanging out better? Should I just make him do all the work? I feel like I might be caught up more then I should be in whatever we have going on. [Razz]

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tigerfishy
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Maybe you should plan something in advance. If you're asking "Can we hang out tomorrow?" that could be too short of notice. So try something like, on Saturday say "Can we hang out next Saturday?"

But also, give it some time. You've only known him for a little while, and like I said, try asking for further in advance. You're new in his life, and he's going to want to spend time with his other friends and whatnot. I'm sure he'll start spending more time with you. =)

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Love to love
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I do thats the problem I asked him about a week in advanced but ya [Razz]

I know and I'm really understanding about him having other plans and what not, I think I was just being silly when I posted this; like over thinking way too much. [Razz]

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