I think maybe I should give a little background. Well me and my boyfriend had been dating on and off for 2 yrs. We had started dating my freshman year, he was a senior and I was a freshman. I'm known as the shy, sweet, and timid girl, so I was kinda nervous. But we started dating, and I fell in love with him. But that turned to disaster. His ex would stalk me and text me, so I would get stressed out and begin losing weight. He would take up for me and tell her to leave me alone, but he was doing stuff with her behind my back. I loved him so much that he was my first time it made me feel better for a little while. I wouldn't change that he was my first time. But he continued to cheat. We took breaks from each other but you could say we were still together. Guess what? he cheats on me with a girl who sleeps with a lot of older guys. Me still loving him I refuse to believe it, and continued to be with him.I broke up with him for a month or so, but he wouldn't let me go. I was his property, I couldn't sleep with other guys or talk to them not even as friends.
i had the same problem, except my boyfriend only tried to talk to other girls & would ask them out & i would always find out. but they never let us go for some reason, its like they love us for how we make them feel, but they love what other girls let them do. it sucks & i dont know what to do, just let him know its not okay.
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