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Sk8r4evr
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Ok so I just started high school. There is this boy, I have known him sence 5th grade. We went out for a little while until the end of summer because we were going to diffrent middle schools. Well ever sence then I cannot get my mind. Off of him. I have felt this way about no one else. So I need some help. Could this be my first love? How can I display I like him? How do I flirt? And how can I try and make a move to kiss him?

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Devanie
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Hey, Sk8r4evr, please try not to double(or triple) post. It clogs up the message board and is kind of annoying.

You might be experiencing attraction towards him, yes, but whether you define it as love or not is your own personal opinion.

Flirting and the like differ from person to person. I generally just try to talk to the person and express interest in learning about them. But you might have a different style, and the person you're crushing on might pick up on different cues. Really, there's no set method that always works, and you just have to go with the flow.

And as for kissing... make sure he has an interest in you first. After that, it'll either come naturally or you can ask permission. Just like flirting, a first kiss varies from partner to partner.

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orca
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(Devanie, it was most likely a computer glitch. It happens from time to time. [Smile] )

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Devanie
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(Oh! Okay. =) I totally understand. Sorry if I came off as rude!)
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