Hey well, my boyfriend ( ex now ) i really thought that we would work out but i guess not.. so anyways i have decided to dump him, i broke up with him 2 days ago and i feel so free... i just got so sick of all the '' not talking excuse cause he's studying '' and so i told him that i hate it that we're not talking and he just said '' stop f****** annoying me .. '' and started cussing me calling me a slut and a bitch. He then brought back what i did last summer with his friend, apparently he thinks i had sex with his friend, he also thinks ive given his friend a blow job and he thinks his friend fingered me. which wasnt true.. all i did was one simple kiss and he tried to do things with me i just moved away... and so, my ex then called me a f****** liar, called me the 2nd slut he's ever known, also said that he was having fun with a slut( me ) and said he could just click his fingers and he'd know id do whatever with him... hmm . He also said if he needs sex he'd give me a call. But then he said that the clicking fingers and using me was a lie, and that he did love me but whatever i feel like his lies are just perfect words.
I got sick of him, no boy should ever treat me like this when they just get mad for no reason. The past is the past. I've learnt that not to regret anything, if it's good then it's wonderful, if it's bad then it's experience.
Hopefully I'll find someone who would treat me much better.
I agree: no one should be treated like that or stick around to be treated that way. Good for you, Serenaa, for standing up for yourself and treating yourself with respect by leaving.
By all means, moving forward I'd suggest you do your best to only choose people to date and be with who are kind and caring and who treat you with respect, and to get out of dodge the minute you know or suspect that anyone you're with will not do those things.
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Yay for recognizing that what he was doing was totally worng. I was in a similar situation and it took me a while to accept tht I shouldn't be thretened or called nasty names or made to be scared. Everyone deserves better than that, including you Serenaa.
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Heather& HappyBunny - I tottally agree he has been calling me names everytime we would fight, he'd even shout at me! back then, i never stood up for myself, i was just calm and cried my eyes out and he'd come back saying sorry. Now, thats not going to work anymore!
as happybunny said, everyone deserves better than that
Heather, i'll start moving forward and choose people to date and be with someone who's kind to me, caring and treat me with respect.
Thank You Both For Your Support!
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