My friend is dating this guy in our class that almost everyone thinks is mean, ugly, fat, cheats on his homework, and does nasty things. I mean we are not that old, but not kids. He has had over 20 girlfriends and I have met them all some way. I go to private school and people ask if i know him, so ya. I think he is bad and she has become the same way. He isn't a virgin either!!! How can I (or someone else) get them to stop??!!
First, I just want to mention that I don't really feel that his looks, weight, or whether he is a virgin or not has much to do with this problem.
Would you mind trying to describe what you are worried about in regards to your friend without calling him names? Maybe pick out specific instances where you have witnessed him do something that made you uncomfortable with him? Or why you think he is "bad"?
From personal experience, schools can be nasty in the way of rumors, so try to keep that in mind when you say things like "almost everyone thinks."
Also, have you spoken to your friend about this? What does she think of your disapproval? Sadly, in these types of situations, we can't force our friends to do anything so it's best to try to be as supportive as possible while letting her know why you are concerned in the nicest way you can.
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:-) Vikki (-: Posts: 153 | From: British Columbia | Registered: Apr 2008
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