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Hey all... I'm not really insecure about this, but just wanting some thoughts on what's going on...

I ask my boyfriend why he loves me... and his response is 'I just do'...

There's nothing wrong with that response is there? As in, it's possible to just have no idea why you're in love with someone ... isn't it?

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No the isn't anything wrong with that respose. Because as you said sometimes you just don't KNOW why you're in love. You just are. If you really don't like the awnser ask him what he means by it because it confused you. But no i don't see anything wrong with his awnser it's a very tough question.

Megan xx

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Have you ever considered that he could've said that because there's not just a single thing that he loves about you, but so many different wonderful things about you that he can't just sum it all up? [Smile]

A lot of the times people don't sit there and think of reasons why they love someone; they just do. And they know they feel a certain way, and they label it love, because what they feel they consider to be love.

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well me and my girl freind ask frequently and it comes out as i just do but when we go deeper we say that because words really don"t describe how we feel so i think its fine
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I'm trying to delete this message, but my computer won't let me...

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Yeh, its hard for me to explain why I love my boyfriend. I try, and do a pretty good job I reckon, and so does he for me, but there aren't any words to fully explain it properly.

Quite a bit we sometimes think about stuff like "Would we have still fallen in love if...", or "Do you love me more only because..." or "Would we still be so close if..." Not that we're insecure about our relationship either. I guess we just like analysing (over analysing maybe) stuff. Fact is we love each other more then anything in the world, who knows what circumstances made that happen. We just do.

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