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steve20
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Me and my girlfriend have been dating 3 months. We are both each others first, so we have been taking it slow for the first 2 months or so. Just recently we have been picking up the speed which is fine because she and I are fine with exploring each other. The first time, she had me pleasure her nipples. We did that for about 3 weeks. She absolutly loves it!! The next time, she had me pleasure her clitoris. This is when I got kinda scared. We have talked about making love and she and I both say that we should wait till we get married or we absolutly know when the time is right. Well, tonight we were in her car, I got on top of her and we started dry-humping. We did this a few times in the past and it worked just fine for her. Im dont really need the feeling I just want her to enjoy it. Tonight, while I was on top of her, I was sucking on her nipples. Me sucking on her was getting her moaning and she was enjoying it, the dry humping really wasnt working. I am looking for a new way to pleasure her. I have been able to pleasure her clitoris( oh that brings up another question). The first time I did this to her she was about ready to come and she started shaking. I thought she was ready, and when I thought she had finished she told me that she was so scared. I asked why and she said that she couldnt move, talk, that I was white and fuzzy. The second time, the same thing happened without the white and fuzzyness. The only thing I can thing of is that maybe this is a sign that she was ready to orgasm. Or is this maybe a bad thing? She was shaking really hard, panting heavy, and she had no control. It took her about 5 minutes the first time to calm down and about 3 or 4 the second time. If you can please tell me that would greatly be appreciated as I dont want to scare her like that. I feel terrible that I did that and I had no idea why that happened to her. Thank you!!
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Jase Watson
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Well, that is her having the orgasm. The first orgasm that you expeirience can be the most intense since youve never felt that kind of pleasure. It sounds to me that was her orgasm. As for how to pleasure, you need to ask her what feels good to her. A simple back massage may be what shed like. Just ask. Touching her in multiple areas, licking, etc. can pleasure her, but she is the one that can tell you what she wants.

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