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out_loud_and_proud
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me and ma girlfriend, have been together now for about a year and 3 months, and we have never been apart from eachother, we have broken up a few times but that never lasted for more then a hour, and we have been really close latley, but then something happened, on thursday she went to ireland with her mate, and im missing her like crazy, ive been crying every night for her, and ive been checking my phone constantly to see if she has text me or tried to ring me, ive been hanging out with some mates to get my mind of her, but i always talk about her, and everytime someone says her name, i start crying, im missing her like mad and she is coming back next thurs, but im scared things might change, and that her mate is talking about me in ireland right now, im scared that me and ma girlfriend arent going to be as close, and we will have loads of fights because of it all, i dont know what to do, please help me, please [Frown]
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It's perfectly fine to miss someone very much when they are away, but keep in mind that you will see her again-- she is not gone forever. [Smile]

What would her friend be saying about you in Ireland? And why would that possibly make your girlfriend not want to be as close to you anymore? I'm not too sure what we can do to help you at this moment, but try to keep calm and keep busy, and by the time she comes back, you can assess the situation properly. Separation for a short time can do a world of good, you know. [Smile]

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out_loud_and_proud
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well last time they were alone together, ma girlfriend said to me, that her mate said stuff like how since ive come along ive broken those two up, and how she wishes i never came along etc, and then she started getting closer to my girlfriend and me and her started to have arguments and broke up, im just mega scared about it because im worried that this time she wont take me back or anything, if her friend keeps saying all this stuff again then ma girlfriend will be slowly slipping through my fingers again, and i dont want it to, im just really so very scared about it all.
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