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brelly
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i cant tell if my bf is mad at me right now, and i am having trouble getting in contact with him... Im going to this month-long summer program called Governor's school. Its a big honor, but I'm really scared because I have always been really shy. So, recently, as i have been preparing to go, i have been really stressed and self-centered. and last night, i texted my bf and just said "im sorry for being such a horrible gf to you lately, and for being rather selfish and immature the past few weeks." and then he texted me back "what?!?!!" so i told him that i just felt like i had treated him badly and wanted to apologize for it. so now hes not responding to me. Its been about 15 hours and Im leaving the day after tomorrow, so i would really like to get this sorted out before i leave. Im not sure if he hasnt responded because he is busy or if hes freezing me out because hes mad or something... it seems completely unreasonable that he would be mad at me for apologizing to him... idk. Im really confused and need other people's opinions.
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JamsessionVT
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We are often very self-conscious of our actions, and sometimes we notice more than others do.

He may simply be surprised that you said anything because he didn't notice it as much, or at all.

We can't tell you if he's mad at you or not. Give it a little bit of time, maybe call him and ask if he got your last message.

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brelly
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okay, thanks so much for your insight [Big Grin]
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