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trbewick
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I wasn't really sure where to post this, so here goes.
I get sexually aroused REALLY easily. It could be something as simple as seeing my gf stretch the right way, and I'd get an erection. And this usually happens when there are other people around, so its really embarassing. I'm so thankful that I havent been seen, but I'm afraid that it's gonna happen sometime.
Can anyone give me tips on how to keep myself under control?

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JamsessionVT
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I happen to have a partner who is almost exactly the same way. And to be honest, the bigger the deal you make of it, the more often it will happen.

It is, very much, a mind-over-body thing. If you notice and fret and worry when it happens, you're body is going to get the best of you. If you notice it, discreetly adjust yourself, and ignore it, you're probably going to notice that it happens less often or goes away more quickly than if you freak out.

If it ever happens again, avoid focusing on it. If you need to, be discreet in adjusting yourself, maybe wear a longer shirt to cover the fly area of your pants.

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Chae
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That happens to my best friend all the time too. He says he just tries to think of anything unsexual to distract himself and turn himself off.

~ Chae

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trbewick
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Thanks Abbie and Chae. This will really help during those "public" instances.

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PinkSweetHeart
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lol..Your just like my boyfriend:) He just wears long Shirts so he can cover up the fly area of his pants...tho.I can always tell when he has one...but im pretty sure other ppl dont:P
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Hollie5626
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When my boyfriend gets an erection at an inappropriate time he is usually able to discreetly tuck it to the side, sort of flat against his leg. It only goes to the left though, not to the right. I don't know if every guys penis can do that though.

Or you could do what Ron Burgundy did in Anchorman and say that its just an optical illusion caused by the pleats on his pants - and that he's taking the pants back to the store right now because they're not very flattering in the crotchal region...back to the pants store [Smile]

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T-Drew
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It's not abnormal for that to happen, man. Turnons are turnons. Oh, and before Superbad ever came out, I discovered a little trick. If you wear loose-fitting pants and are big enough, tuck your erection up into your waistband of your pants. (Unless you have your shirt tucked in, belt, yadda yada). There are a lot of things that can ruin it, but it works if your erection is simply too long and straight to stick down the pants leg.
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Hot Knives//Bright Eyes
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One phrase:
'Dead puppies.'
My friend said that when he and his girlfriend were hanging out and heard the parents come down and BAM.
They both looked down and it was GONE.
It's like magic. >_>'

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