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lfc4life
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I have been going with my Girlfriend now 7 months I think I love her well I do, but it this way if we broke up I would be very sad.

The problem is.I just can't stop flirtin with other girls. Even know I don't do anything I haven't cheated on her or nothing and don't think I would but I don't know if I can see us together when were are in our 80's does every couple feel like that when the are in the first few months of going with each other. I can't just see that this will be the last girl I will ever have sex with.

I had so many plans with the lads going away on holidays and getting off with different girls every day and having 1 night stands! I know this sounds stupid but that was something I was looking forward in my late teens and early 20's then I planned to settle down in the mid 20's with a girl. i didn't plan to fall in love with this girl but I did. I just think if I was 7 years ahead and everything would be perfect and I would be 25 and then I could see myself growing old with her.I am only 18 and have had only sex with 3 different girls and just feel I am settling down far to quick.

Just dunno what to do am I being true to my girlfriend.

Any advice would be greatful

thanks

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Chae
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I wouldn't be terribly concerned yet... I think it's natural to flirt with other people, so long as it doesn't get to the point of cheating emotionally or physically. Unless you think you're misleading your girlfriend, or treating her unfairly, I wouldn't do anything drastic like break up with her. Give it a chance, you're young but you may think more seriously about the future of the relationship as time goes on. [Smile]

~ Chae

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