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Hype
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Okay...
Basically, one of my friends at school and I were talking for a REALLY long time yesterday (over 13 hours on a Saturday). Nearly the entire time, I was debating with myself over whether or not I should tell him that I like him. Our conversation covered a myriad of different topics, each of which we had no trouble discussing.

At the very end of our conversation, when he was about to leave, I told him how I felt. Surprisingly, he told me he felt the same way. He said that he has liked me ever since he met me at the beginning of the school year.

Naturally, this made me feel really happy, to say in the least. We decided we wouldn't be boyfriend/girlfriend just yet, and that we wouldn't tell our friends (we hang out in the same group all the time) until next school year starts in July, at least.

The dilemma is that we agreed to get to know each other better for now. Where do we go from here? It's going to be VERRYYY awkward on Monday.... =/

Also...we were trying to think of nicknames for each other that wouldn't give anything away to our friends but would still be special to us. Any ideas? [Confused]

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Horizon
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Why don't you plan something fun together, maybe a movie or lunch sometime? Even a walk in the park (which can sound awfully cheesy, but can be extremely enlightening.) You say you have the same friends, so it wouldn't be out of the ordinary to ask them to come along, either.

Since we do not know you personally, you two are probably the best ones to decide on a nickname, if you prefer. Maybe something will come up in time on its own, (seems like inside jokes yield the best nicknames).

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Hype
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Hey, thanks a bunch!
We already had a movie planned with some other friends before this all came up, and I thought of a nickname already! [Big Grin]
The biggest problem is finding time to hang out together without being totally obvious.
Our other friends are always around, and there's not really any time for us to be alone. :C

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