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TheCitizenErased
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Well 2 weeks ago me an my girlfriend of 10 months split up.It was a long time coming I suppose but we really loved each other so we ontinued on.It was mutual and i took it better than i thought.We both promised each other we would remain friends.Everything was fine until a few days ago.I leave her comments on bebo...no reply...or she deletes them.I have reason to believe she has blocked me on msn.I get this impression she wants nothing to do with me.I know that i did do something quite bad before we split up an she was angry with me and she did say she couldnt forgive me right away.I understand this.
But she is acting like she wants nothing to do with me. I never thought for a second that it would end this way but i guess i was wrong.
I have moved on , but i need her as a friend.I still love her but i wont interfere with her relationships etc but now she wont even look at me. I dunno what to do.

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LilBlueSmurf
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You need to leave her alone. I think she's making it quite clear she doesn't want any contact w/ you. You need to respect that.

It's hard for the majority of people to maintain a friendship after a breakup. You may be expecting too much of her, regardless of what she said at the time of the breakup.

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