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Well, there's this guy I have been talking to for quite sometime....I don't know I suddenly feel I am falling in love with him....I am very confused though. I know he likes me and loves me....and a lot of instances he has hinted that I may be the right woman for him and so on. But then I don know what to parents would never ever approve of this relationship,....he's from a different caste to begin with, and i can't speak his language, he's not yet found his feet in his profession yet, not very financially sound yet, has a different lifestyle from wud be a lot of complications if i intend to go fwd her coz it wud mean going against my parents which i wudn't be happy doing so....which is why I am holding back with the belief that i will find my guy again.....I donno if i am doing the right thing...but i believe i am being sensible and practical.
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I've found that you can't control who you like or love, but if you feel that this person is wrong for you despite the feeling you have for them, then perhaps you need to move on. Love isn't always enough.
If you strongly value your parents' approval, then he's not the right guy. And if you're looking for somone who has the same or a a similar lifestyle to yours, then again he's not right for you.
Whether you are doing the right thing or not really all depends on what you value and what you believe is the most important.
Good luck [Smile]


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(Excellent post, starlet! [Smile] )

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