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crwrestler
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lately ive felt like ive been attracted to a couple other girls even though i already have a girlfriend and idk it feels like i kinda like them but not really at the same time is that normal
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faifai
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I don't really know what you're asking...? Is it normal to have attractions to other people even if you have a partner? Yes, it is. People find other people attractive, you can't just turn that off. If you want to act on such attractions, though, and you're in a monogamous relationship, you owe it to the both of you to end that relationship first.

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-Jill
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Being attracted to more than one person at any given time is perfectly normal. Dating someone doesn't make you unable to appreciate other people or make you oblivious to them. [Smile]
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crwrestler
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okay cause idk i feel like i like other people too but i really dont tihnk i do its weird
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faifai
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Ok, uh, you're going to have to be more clear about what you mean, because I truly don't know what you're trying to say here. You feel like you like other people, but you don't think you like other people? That's a bit contradictory. Could you elaborate?

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