Ive been going out with my girlfriend for about 5 months now and I really love her and I know she loves me.But lately I keep going in bad moods because she has a habit of "kidding on." For example today when I was on the phone to her I thought Id play her at her own game and when she asked if I loved her I said no...(which now that i think of it a very very stupid thing)...and immediatley after it I said I was joking but then she said well if you dont love me then break up with me.I said no and that I did love her and then it turns out she was only joking too.I know that this example was my fault but about 90% of the time its her that does it and it puts me in moods and we end up falling out and im scared that one day i'll end up breaking up with her beacuse of this. What should I do? Please help!!
-------------------- Im Always Wishing Too Late ... Posts: 68 | From: The Blue Planet | Registered: Oct 2006
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Perhaps you could both agree to stop the "kidding on" for a while, or permanently? Agree that if you say "I love you," that it should only be when you mean it and not when you want to make a joke. This seems like a problem that you could both easily fix by agreeing to be more careful about your communication habits.
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