I'm 15 years old, and I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed. I know that this isn't the most important thing ever and I'm still young , I realize that. But the thing is, I don't even really have any close guy friends. What I really want is to just have some male companionship in my life, and hopefully from that things will evolve into dating and relationships. I'm a very shy person, but I open up when I get to know people. I'd consider myself somewhat atractive, I hang out with a good group of friends,I'm intelligent, and a nice person, so I don't understand why I have this problem. I just need some advice on how to get guys interested in me and how to form relationships with them. For some reason I just get very nervous around them like I'm afraid I'm going to make an idiot of myself or something. So all in all, I really just need some help and advice on how to address this issue.
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I never really had this problem,because I usually always have had some very close male friend in my life,but given the situation...I wouldn't worry about it.
I'd say,just tell yourself you can do it(because you obviously can,given you're smart,pretty,and nice)and just talk to a random boy at school,that's how I got the male friends I have now. [I just moved to this school and randomly started talking to people]
Try and be social with them,and let them know,without telling them all the time,that you're there for them once you establish a relationship.
And rememberrrr YOU CAN DO IT!!!
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