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bugsy182
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Has anybody had such a close friendship to another girl that you start to see/feel like one person???

Has anybody had that super close friend where you both know that with they way you interact with eachother it could be mistaken for dating???

Like, we talk EVERYDAY some of "our songs" are like, relationship songs.

Valentines day is kinda "our holiday" we would always get eachother a stuffed animal that sings 'Sugar Pie Honey Bunch'

She's a friend that when I'm with her, I laugh so hard my stomach hurts; I can tell her anything; I can count on her to always be there.....

Has anybody had this sort of friendship with a close friend? Or is there something more??

Any feedback plz.

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DarkChild717
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Yep. Sounds like a great friendship. [Smile]

Just because you're close with someone does not automatically make it romantic.

Why do ask?

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bugsy182
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I guess I've never had this sort of friendship before... Kinda scares me sometimes, but in a good way. I miss her so much.

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ninster8
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i have a friendship like that too. i get scared also because sometimes i think that if we fight or son't talk for a day that something is really wrong. it's like being in a relationship but even scarier really because losing a friend would be so much harder than losing a boyfriend.

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NILM
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i kno exactly wat your talking about
thats how me and my "boyfriend" first started
there is something more

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Surferchk07
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I think alot of people have had this type of friendship. My best friend that I've known since I was in 8th grade have that type of thing. We talk about everything, and in a way we flirt with each other. Its a casual thing, She knows im gay, shes straight and has a boyfriend but were like sisters. Actually we have an on going joke that if were both 40 and not married we will get married too each other cause we have way too much in common and we already talk about everything.

Its just a friendship dont worry about it, Its natural for you to feel interested in one of your close friends because you DO have alot in common and can talk about anything. But the thing is you know there just your best bud and they would never work out as anything more.

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ninster8
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i'm not worried it's gay...it's a different feeling than being in love with some one. hard to explain i guess.

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bellaitaliana69
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My best friend and I are totaly like that. We finish eachother's sentances and everything. We also make jokes about "wanting to have eachother's babies". It's great to have friends like that. [Smile]

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babybear
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I had that friendship for almost 11 years until her boyfriend came along and she was suddenly too mature to have a best friend. I miss it alot.
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