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scholes18
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hi im 15 yrs old n my gf is the same age. she has 36C boobs n all da guys tease me sayin they r massive n abnormal. it really affects me cuz i dont want her to be. is she abnormal n are they really extra large??
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LilBlueSmurf
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Your girlfriends breasts are not abnormal.

Why should it affect you by what your friends say about your girlfriends breasts? How does your girlfriend feel about your friends talking about her in this way?

Doesn't sound like these 'friends' are friends at all.

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Galis
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Hmm lol maybe your friends are just jealous what count is that you and her like them and why would you care if you friend like your girl breasts?. I wouldn't mine if my friend hate everything about my girl that way i can trust them around her lol [Smile]
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Brianna
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I agree with lilbluesmurf, her body is not abnormal. I'm 5'4", tiny waist, but I have a 32DD chest, and pretty big hips. It's not abnormal, it's just a different body form. There's hourglass, pear, straight, etc.

If you really like her, it shouldn't even matter if she WAS abnormal; what really should count is how you feel about her as a person.

About your friends, you shouldn't listen to them, and tell your girlfriend not to listen to them either. Everybody is beautiful and unique in their own way.

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Mr. Matthew
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Teasing often means something different than what is being said. I agree with Galis. Maybe your friends are jealous that you have a girlfriend and they don't. Maybe they are unsure of themselves and are insecure being around a woman who looks to be very womanly, rather than more like the girls your friends grew up with until now. Whatever you say, they might not stop teasing, but stick up for your girlfriend and tell them you think she's really great and looks don't have anything to do with it.
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thathollygirl
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Her breasts are not a problem unless they cause her physical pain (they're hurting her back, etc.), and unless she's really tiny, this is probably not the case. She's just fine the way she is.
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scholes18
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thanx a lot for all ur advice. id really appreciate it if theres ne1 else who has ne kind of opinion
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