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Music_is_my_Aeroplane2
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ok well there is this kid i knew since 5th grade... he moved during 6th and came back during 8th... we havent talked a lot ever since. but now we work together and have met again and we have fun at work together... i rly like him and my friends say he likes me too... we have a lot in common and everytime we work together we laugh a lot... (we've been workin together for a few months.) i was walkin with my friend nicole the other day and he pulled up by me on his bike and called me a fool. (i always call him a fool so it was kinda cute.) and we were talking for a few and then we went different directions...i rly rly rly like him and ppl say he likes me and that its sooo obvious... and in my horoscopes it says love is in my future and all that crap... id like to think that true. idk if i should ask him out because what if im wrong, what if he doesnt like me, and will he still be comfortable knowing that i like him? what should i do?
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You still have a lot of time to figure out if he likes you or not. It might be good to develop a closer friendship with him and then see how it goes from there.
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I can't imagine a better set-up for you to make the first move. It sounds like the two of you have fun together, you like him, your friends think he likes you. It's time for someone to make a move or you'll be in this place for a looong time. It may as well be you. [Smile]
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Music_is_my_Aeroplane2
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i really want to ask him out but if he says no i dont want to ruin our friendship now... like i dont want him to be uncomfortable around me and not talk.
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-Jill
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That is a risk you face. However, I think any awkwardness would just be temorary until you re-establish your friendship.

That means that if you ask him out and he declines, you both have to act like friends again. (Assuming that's what you want to be.) Respecting his answer and treating him the way you always have should be enough to show him that you're okay with the way things turned out but you still value him.

Besides, all of this is if he doesn't want to go on a date. He very well good be feeling the same way you are. I still think making the first move is worthwhile. [Smile]

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you know... that really helped! thank you!
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You're welcome!
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