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-:TAYLOR:-
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i like a girl from my school but i havent got a clue if she likes me!!!!
in my first 2 years she hated me cos my friends but i dont hang around with them anymore and i made friends with her but i still fancy her!
I havent got a clue how 2 let her now how i feel?
could any one give me advice?

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shadowspectre
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When I like a girl, I just try to find ways to hang out with her more often. Get to know her. Like one time, i liked this girl and I sat next to her best friend in english class, so I made friends with her friend (by lending her paper and scissors actually) and before long I was hangin out with her friend and therefore her too. I got to know the girl and decided I dednt like her very much afterall, but thats beside the point.
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Cappa
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Try to find a way to hang out with her. If she plays a sport, attend one of the games/meets. If you're allowed to have a myspace, sometimes you can friend someone and send them a message or two and take it from there.

Try not to mention your friends, as that is not important; remember that your goal is to let her get to know you for who you are.

Stay calm and try to start conversations about personal experiences that were funny and interesting.

If she is not interested in dating you, she can turn out to be your best friend. Taking the chance is well worth it.

Good luck, Taylor.

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thanx people but im a bit nervous i dont no wot 2 do when i do see her or get the chance 2 chat
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PigmyPuff
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Don't be nervous, she's just a person like you and like Cappa said, after all she can be your friend if things dont' work out! But for now, let's concentrate on approaching. I agree with the idea of hanging with her friends or close to her, that's always a good way to get to meet someone. If you can't pluck up your courage to do that, there's always internet. MSN, Chatrooms, whatever. Although, you WILL have to talk to her personally if you really want something to happen.
After getting to know her, when you're feeling comfortable enough in her presence, you should let her know that you fancy her. Most of all, be patient and be yourself, don't change friends or your personality to get to her. =)

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