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how do u know that ur realtionship is falling apart? is it when he stops calling, quits caring, when u mean nothing at all to him?


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Heya Brandy07,
In my past experiance and my point of veiw, I believe that if you can't talk to your partner and does'nt call you ( although there might me a rational explaination), maybe it is already over?

Although I cant speak for your partner or you for that matter, if by what you say 'you mean nothing to him', is it not time to move on and find someone who you mean the world to? If he really don't care and (at the risk of sounding evil) you mean nothing to him ... then girl you can do better!!

If you believe that your relationship is on the rocks I think you need to speak to him first, have a gentle chat with him. If you cant, write him a letter. And if he does'nt talk to you then at least you can say you tried and count your differences and loses.

Thats my opinion anyways honey - I hope it does'nt offend you and that more people will give u advice and opinion as well...

All my love,
Keekee xxx

Yes, know thyself: in great concerns or small, Be this thy care, for this, my friend, is all. - Juvenal

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if he stops caring, maybe the relationship isn't worth it. Maybe it's best if you don't date him

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Well, with my experience, my boyfriend and I don't do well with phone calls anyway. We pretty much know that I will call him, etc. It really just depends on your relationship and how YOU feel about it. Do you feel that he's not into you? I don't judge much by the number of my boyfriend's calls, as we both know that we're horrible over the phone, so I just go with it. I'm very easy-going when it comes to that.

What counts for me is how we are when we're together, really. If the spark is still there [which it is], then it's good.

Now, I can't judge for you. Just go with your instincts, I suppose.

[ 05-23-2006, 04:03 PM: Message edited by: Mathilde ]

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its all about communication, now im goin to back up the guys side, us guys we arnt worth it if we dont love you. [Wink] as far as communication and seeing each other goes, if he has time to call and see you but doesnt thats not normally good unless your just taking a lil break from each other which can sometimes be good, just depends on the situation....well i hope it all goes good

If you have to steal a pregnancy test chances are you cant afford a baby either

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