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keekee
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Hey ... my ex b/f has heard i have a new b/f who im happy with .... BUT uhm .... he caLLS ME 20 TIMES A DAY ... WHYEN I DO ANSWER IT HES CRYING AT ME ... HOW DO I LET HIM DOWN GENTLY?

LOVE KEEKEE
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**** sorry about the caps lock****

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Abuse can and will only survive and thrive if silence is kept. So lets speak out?!

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LilBlueSmurf
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It doesnt sound like letting him down gently is an option now.

If i were you i would stop accepting his calls. Just do not pick up the phone. Have his phone number blocked from your phone. Let your friends and family members know that youre having problems w/ this guy and get the police involved if the behaviour continues.

This behaviour is NOT okay and you do not have to deal w/ it. He obviously has no concern for your wants/needs right now, so i'm not sure why you're so concerned for his.

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keekee
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i told my mom and she said if it gets worse give me the mobile and ill tell him. Well i had a long talk with him and i said this is enough I dont need it or want u anymore and to stop calling ! he kept saying 'keekee i need you, i love you , dont leave me' and i guess that gets me cos i dont like people begging.
kee
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Yes, know thyself: in great concerns or small, Be this thy care, for this, my friend, is all. - Juvenal

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DarkChild717
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(Hey, keekee? Could you please use proper English in your posts? Some of them are a bit hard to read. Thanks.)

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keekee
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Oh, sorry darkchild717. I did not realise honey! I tend to write how I talk, the downside being that i don't talk proper english! I will try my hardest!
*gives dark child some flowers*
keekee
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DarkChild717
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[Big Grin] Thanks, keekee.

The only reason we ask is that many of our users don't speak English as their first language, so posting as properly as possible is just a courtesy to them, and everyone else who may read your post.

To bring it back on topic, how is the issue with the ex progressing?

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