I'm having abit of a dilema and i don't know what to do i'd like some peoples advise if you wouldn't mind:-) I'm 15 years old and i have a saturday job working clearing tables in a shopping centre and there is this boy who works serving food at the shopping centre called Adam. I've liked him for a while and then recently he got my msn and i started talking to him, he told me he liked me. Then me and him and another couple went cinema we didn't really get on because we was both quite shy. I went to work the next Saturday and heard he had been chatting up other girls i work with on msn and they said no. The weekend after he asked if we could go out again and because i still really like him i said yeah and we went out for dinner and so did the other couple, while we was out for dinner he kept talking about other girls which made me quite upset. I had decided that night that i was not interested in him and i was gonna tell him then he text me saying he don't think we're gonna work so i agreed. Then after going to work saturday he txt me saying he didn't mean what he said and can we try again i said yes and then he started chatting up one of my really good mates on msn and she told me about it, so i decided to ignore him all together then he spoke 2 me on msn asking me out and i was txting this girl he had chatted up earlier and i called him some really nasty names and i accidently sent the message to him he got really annoyed and i felt so guilty, then after about a week it all blew over and now i'm talking to him again. His mate txt me last night asking for my best friends mobile number i think he is gonna give it to Adam because he has a girlfriend. I really like Adam and he tells me he still likes me. I don't know what to do though because i still feel bad for calling him names in the text do you think i should say to him to try again? I can't stop thinking about him! Please reply and tell me what you'd do! Thanks x x
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It really doesn't sound like things are going well. When you go out you don't really enjoy each other and he's hitting on your friends behind your back. In my opinion, it's very rude for someone to date you and then attempt to date your friends without clearing it with you first.
Were it me, I would cut off contact with this guy. He doesn't sound like he's treating you with any consideration at all, nor as if he's being entirely honest with you. Do your friend a favor and don't give out her number; she doesn't need him either.
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