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krissyo
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okay this is concerning me and a boy and i really dont know what to do...so if anyone is interested it trying to help me and give me suggestions that would be great :-D

so theres this boy alex who've i liked for going on six months. my best friend nina started liking this kid jean. so we would go over his house and sleepover. well alex is jeans cousin and he was always over there when we would sleepover. so once nina started dating alex..i askked alex if he thought that jean would do "stuff" with me and sure enough alex said yeah. so we would make out and stuff...well six months have gone by. and alex goes to a different school so i only get to see him on the weekends when we go over jeans house.

and since the very begining ive liked alex but he never seemed like he wanted to really go out with me. i just recently talked to jean about it and asked what was up. and he said its just that hes scared to have a girlfriend because he never has really had a "real" girlfriend.so after me worrying about alex using me the whole time ..its just been that hes scared to have a girlfriend. so now that i know this i want to try to loosin him up and try to show him that it wont be scarey to have a girlfriend.

i also barely talk to him during the week.sometimes online but when its online we have like hey whats up kinda convos..nothing really that great. should i give him my number?

what do you guys have for suggestions as to how i can try to get him to date me or just get closer to me. i am so confused!


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Gumdrop Girl
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you. ask. him.

duh. it's 2006, get with the program, girl.

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Lindsay*Marie
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i agree, talk to him, tell him you like him if it seems liek his reaction is good, which i am sure it will ask him out and of course give him your number.
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Barkingkiwi
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I'd just like to point out, from a male point of view, that I would personally be delighted if a girl initiated a romantic relationship.
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lotesseflower
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Totally, ask him. You've got good reason to think that he's into you, so move on him.

It's scary to ask someone out, but it's just as scary from boys as it is for us girls.

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Cactus9
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Seriously, just ask him. I assume you're in high school, so I'll say this. You might as well find out how he feels about you rather than playing guessing games with yourself.
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DTB3
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yea i want to agree with Barkingkiwi that i would love it if a woman initiated a romantic relationship. then again i am a kid like alex who has never had a real girlfriend and i fear rejection. it is just a lot of pressure and even if a woman starts talking about having some sort of feelings for me, it really helps a lot, it just kinda shows me i dont have to fear rejection as much and eases me.
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