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nina_brown04
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I'm deeply in love with my boyfriend. We have been together almost seven months. We are in a long distance relationship as well. I'm in college and hes back home and i plan on spending the rest of my life with him. Ok heres the thing...i think i have a crush on this guy that comes in the office where i work. Is that wrong of me or is it normal? I mean i don't want to be with this guy or anything but if i were single it would be a different story. Like today i asked him to speak spanish for me (he's puerto rican) and he did and i almost had an orgasm. lol. I think the guy is adorable but my feelings for my boyfriend haven't changed at all. I have no intents of cheating or acting on these thoughts i'm having. Does that make me a bad person? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks

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DarkChild717
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That's the great thing about fantasy--none of it has to be real. You can do anything you want in your imagination, satisfy what you need to, and continue on with your life.

Crushes are okay. They're kinda fun, really. I admit that I have celebrity crushes. I know and my partner knows nothing will come of them, but they're fun.

The real trick is not acting on them, and simply letting them die. A week, a month is probably fine, but eventually, they need to simply fade away into oblivian.

So, no, it doesn't make you a bad person. Have fun, and let it go.


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