i was at my best friends house and her brother and me were deffinatly in to eachother... so me and her brother started drinking... we were deffinatly buzzed so we were in his bed and he tried to get in my pants and i said no i dont want to be a drunk slut hook up ... and all we did was make out and i told him how i felt ... ever since i wouldnt let him hook up with me he just dont even want to be around me any more... is it because i wouldnt hook up with him...??? why do i still want him??
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Well, attraction is human nature. Even when you don't want it to be there. However, you can not act on the feelings.
I'm guessing you've tried to talk to him about it, but he keeps avoiding the subject (and you?) Maybe he felt weirded out by it, maybe he wished it hadn't happened, maybe he wishes for more. Maybe he and his sister/your friend talked about it and felt it would cause too much strife between the two of them?
But if he isn't communicating anything, moving on the best thing, even though you're disappointed. Because investing any more time/energy/emotions without any return would just get very frustrating.
I'd try to concentrate on other things and avoid him for awhile if that's what it's going to take to get him out of your mind.
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