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shakinghandincision
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my boyfriend and i have been experiencing changes latley. we've been fighting more and we havent been having as much fun as we used to. my jealousy tends to take over. i love him to death but im unsure of how to keep our relationship going without screwing up. what should i do?
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LilBlueSmurf
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What has changed? Why do you feel jealous of him? How does he react to this jealousy?

You need to figure a few things out (as in, if you really DO want to continue this relationship and why it appears as though you're trying to sabatoge it) and talk to him about it.

Is he feeling the same as you?


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Ghosty
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If you find that your jelousy is taking over, you should start asking you why, and how to tone it down.

Are you a jelous type of person, or does this have with recent happenings to do ?

Also, perhaps you fight more, but do you solve more ? If yes, then perhaps it's just a period. If no, then perhaps something is changing ?

But if you think your jelousy is taking over, start talking to your boyfriend about it.


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lotesseflower
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Openness is good--is there a reason why you've been feeling more jealous? Talk to him about it.

At the end of the day, every relationship has its ups and downs, and sometimes you have to stick it out. But sometimes you have to do something, confront what's been troubling you.

I hope that everything works out in whatever way is best for you


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