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Recently I've found out that an ex-boyfriend from like 8 months ago has told people that I had sex with him when I never did. It bothers me, but I can't exactly bring it up with him because I haven't talked to him in 8 months. I also know I deserve it because I blatently used him. I was wondering if there was ANYTHING I could do or if I should just let it go? I was also wondering if I should be bothered by it, or if it is really my fault that he's spreading rumors about me?
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You know that little saying what goes around comes around?.. this may be the case. If you used him something is bound to happen, regarless getting even isn't right either. I would try to brush it off and not worry about it, and think he probley wishes he slept with your or he wouldn't say it. Don't dwell on it... it won't matter later. Next time think about the consequences of your actions though.
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well, you can always go around telling everyone you kow what a dirty liar your ex is. you have the right to defend yourself, but you gotta make sure people can believe you. so ask yourself why people would believe him. is he popular? is he a good liar? then try to head him off at the pass and appeal to people to believe your side of the story.

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If nobody believes you when you deny it, just tell them that he was obviously so bad in bed that you can't even remember it. That'll learn him...
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like the 1st person said "wat goes around comes around" but im not sure how you used this boy but the fact that you used him does in no way qualify him or give him reason to make lies about you. you should talk to him about this or just simply negate that lie and tell people it is not true

men are so silly sometimes

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