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so i've been best friends with this girl for over four years, and about a year and a half ago i moved away. the first year i lived out here, we were really close and called eachother everyday and such but now everything is different.

i'm not trying to blame it on her, but i've made the effort and tried to bring our relationship back on track and i've confronted her about how i feel that she doesn't go out of her way to call me anymore, and she said she would change but she hasn't. she gives the excuse that she's busy, but so am i and i still make the effort.

my boyfriend has been telling me to forget about her and that she's not worth it anymore, but we've been friends for so long i don't want to throw the relationship away. any advice on what to do?

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It happens . People grow apart, for no imparticular reason. Sometimes it really does suck, but dont try to force it. If shes making excuses obvious enough for you to notice them, then u two are obviously growing apart. I think everyone goes through this, that one friendship you thought would never change. I wish you luck and i might be misinterpreting this maybe you guys will regain your strong friendship, if so, thats great... if not just carry on it wasnt ment to be that way.

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