Last night my bf called me and he was like he got something to tell me and i was like what. He has a cousin named Brittany , Brittany has a friend named Shay and another one named Morgan. Well Morgan and Shay dont like each other becuase they both have a crush on my bf.So my bf, Brittany, and Shay went over Morgans house becuase they were bored.My bf said he fell asleep on the couch and when he woke up his cousin and her friend was gone so it was just him and Morgan. So they were there all alone and she told him that she like him. Then her mom came home and she put him in the closet because she never told anyone that she was grounded. So her mom left and she took him in her room and she start trying to kiss him and he said he just pulled away and left. So when he told me this i was just speechless and i just said tell me this, then i said did yall do anything and he said no then i said did u kiss her and he said no. He was like u dont believe me and i said yeah i do. But part of me does and then another part is not really sure. I know all this is real confusing so sorry. it took me a while to understand. But how are these 2 girls Shay and Morgan go fight over him and he's with me. And they know he got a gf. it just bothers me but i know i cant really do anything about it. I just sort of feel like i dont really matter. I know girls are going to like him but i just didnt know it would be so hard to deal with. I even told him to let me talk 2 Morgan and he was like no. But i just want to set the record straight to let her know that she needs to back off. I mean i dont want to start nothing but i dont know i want to talk 2 her but he wont let me.
Frankly, this has very little to do with you and i think you need to stay out of it. Your boyfriend isn't property and you don't own him. You don't have to fight for him ... Being with you, he's already chosen you over them. If he's going to change his mind, you getting into a fight with these two girls isn't going to change that.
So really, i wouldn't really worry about it too much. Some people even take it as a compliment, that others find their partners attractive.
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