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Observer
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Hello there
it's been a while since my last post, I'm 21 now, I don't know if I'm considered a teen but still, I have a question that needs fresh minds!
Do you guys and girls have any ideas on what interesting / crazy / out-of-the-ordinary things one can do to keep a relationship fresh and interesting? I mean, everyone can go out, have a drink, watch a movie, play bowling etc. but I'm sure you can think more interesting stuff than that. So go ahead, share your thoughts, hopefully I'll get some interesting feedback on this Thank you

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Emmajen
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First off, sometimes putting extra effort when you do the same stuff can already make it fun and refreshing. Like ya, everyone can go for a drink all the time, but what if you get dressed up and go somewhere really swanky with your partner instead of your usual bar hang out (for example)?
Or doing something really spontaneous and out of the blue. I live near a port and my partner and I were just walking along it deciding what to eat for dinner but intead we just hopped on one of those tourist boats!
Other great ideas if you want something completely different. Take each other someplace that means something special to either of you and explore it together or share each other's intersts. For example, I love dancing so I took my bf to the dance studio where I have classes and we took a silly one-off dance class together. He produces music so he took me to a studio so I could watch and learn. Bottom line: share something special with each other that usually just yours.

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Cactus9
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You don't even have to go out of your budget to have fun. I know one of my friends enjoyed going on a picnic on top of a building over going to the "opera" with a "gentleman".

Really, just do things you would find enjoyable. The poster above me is right as well, involve your significant other in personal things.


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