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My boy friend and i have been going out for 2 months now and i really care for him alot. I have a real close friend named Romeo. Romeo and i use to always flirt before me and my bf started going out. My problem is that im starting to get feelings for Romeo. Me and Romeo are real close and we always flirt with each other. But i dont know what to do because i dotn want to hurt my bf. My bf and romeo know each other, they talk sometimes. My bf tells me that Romeo always talk about me. I got real scared becuase i dotn want my bf to be like he likes her or they like each other. I dont know what to do because i feel like im cheatin and it's not a good feeling.
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If you don't want to hurt your boyfriend, then stop flirting with Romeo. If you can't do that, then re-evaluate whether or not you're ready for a steady relationship with your current boyfriend.

If you find you want to be with your boyfriend, then distance yourself from Romeo, and let those flames die. There's no need to bring hurt to a relationship.

However, I'm confused. You say here you are flirting with Romeo, yet you posted that you want to begin a sexual relationship with your boyfriend? Please, for everyone involved, figure our where your loyalties lie before engaging in a sexual relationship with anyone. That will add more fuel to the fire, and cause more problems down the road.

[This message has been edited by DarkChild717 (edited 12-04-2005).]

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