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my boyfriend and i have been together for 1 year and 8 months, i am 15 now, but i have moved away for 2 months (last year) and this year i moved schools, but i am stil in the same city, i have been hearing from my friends at my old school that he is cheating on me with a girl that i knew liked him before...and i have also noticed that he is ALWAYS out and he always goes to parties where there is drinking and smoking, but he says he never does any of it, so i wonder what he is doing instead. he barely ever calls me, and i never get to see him because my parents are strict, so what do i do? ive tried asking him to call me on the ight time, but more then 5 times he says he will, but doesnt, and says he left straight from school to his friends house. he is very controllative, and tells me what i can and can not wear, he tells me i cant talk to any guys on the phone except for him, and i have never told him what he cant wear, and he supposively stopped talking to all of his girls that are friends... but i have this weird feeling, that hes lieng when he tells me he loves me, because if he really did and did make time for me, then woudltn he call when i asked him and not tell me im getting mad for no reason when he doesnt call like he said he would?? HELP!!!
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He isn't showing a lot of interest in you.

You barely get to see him.

He's got red flags on being borderline abusive (the controlling stuff, trying to limit who you speak to, etc.).

Flatly, whether he's cheating and lying or not on top of this stuff, sounds like it's time to think about moving on, tough as that is.

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