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Kath88
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ok this is kind of a weird ? but i'll go ahead and ask.... I always have an awkward moment with my "guy friend" i mean like if i give him a blowjob or even after sex i never know what to say...you know it's just kind of an awkward silence...if anyone has some advice for me that would be very helpful...but please keep in mind that i'm not really looking for like something to say...more just looking to try to make it less awkward...if that even makes sense
thank you!

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Gumdrop Girl
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it's awkward because even though you're not looking to start a conversation, you feel like it's expected.

how about not trying to expect a conversation? you can smile, roll over and take a nap. or you can spoon. or you can politely excuse yourself for a glass of water and a trip to the toilet (to prevent bladder infections). there are plenty of other perfectly natural things you could do with the next twenty minutes after you have sex.

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