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K3S2 dude
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my gf is two years younger than me. BUT she is way more mature than she looks.we did have our differences in the past and as a matter of fact we did break up more than five times b4 and the reasons were that:

most of them were caused by stupid arguments that i must admit i started at the first place. i dont know why i feel this way in front of her. i hate this about myself and always end up cursing my self. i want her to know that that is not how i realy am. its like a personality shift. i have kinda learnt how to fix this alredy by realising the fact that... i realy love her... and i know she loves me the same way. but what ever happens we ALWAYS get back together. honestly this relationship is great, like, wen we broke up, i went out with other girls but NEVER EVER found the same satisfaction that i had with the only person i ever loved- BUT- hey, its our 5th time in this relationship. I m wondering- wat i can do so that our past can never repeat itself. ps, i know im kinda vague withn the whole question...i dunno ho to explain.i will submit more afta ur reply.


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Gumdrop Girl
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so you start a lot of stupid arguments?

you need to think really hard about the things you say. Before you get mad and say something mean, think about "what is going to happen if i say this to her?" if it's bad, then shut up and find a more constructive way to let her know you're upset.

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