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My "best friend" and I stopped talking about two months ago because I just got sick of her ego. We only talked about her and how many guys LOVE her...including my boyfriend, her "really good friend." Well things got rocky between my boyfriend and I because of her. As time progressed I just stopped talking to her instead of yelling or causing drama. Recently she tried to apologize via MYSPACE. It was a pathetic apology, but I don't hate her or anything... it's just been a nice two months without her constant drama. Most of my friends don't want me to talk to her again because of things she's done to them, but I'm beginning to miss her friendship. A part of me wants to start talking to her again, but then I know I'll piss my other friends off. I feel like it's a lose-lose situation. Help?
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Well, you've pointed out the bad parts of your friendship with her. However, you failed to tell us the parts that you missed.

You should ask yourself if things will be different this time around with her. Keep in mind change in people is a glacial process. If you think the end result will be the same, you'll want to stay away. If there is a chance you think things will be better this time around, go ahead.

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