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Ok..iv been dating this guy for about a month and a couple of weeks. This is are second time dating each other again(we dated 2 and a half weeks before that which was are first time for about a month.) I used him the first time and it was a horrible break up. Well then he kept calling me and talking to me every chance he got. And finally he just asked me out. I said yes , this time i liked him. Hes in highschool and our highschool runs 10 thru 12 and im in jr high which runs 7th thru 9th..hes in 10th im in 9th..but hes barely a year older than me. Well like 2 weeks ago his mom found out that he was trying to get beer to his party. And shes the type of mom who makes things 10 times worse than what they really are. So she FREAKED!..even tho it wasnt for him!..She took his phone and shut it off...and said she didnt know when he was going to be ungrounded. He couldnt do anything or call me the first week. The second week he could talk to me a little. So we saw each other about once a week for 2 weeks. It really sucked. Well here lately, i feel annoyed around him especially in public. I dont know if maybe its just cause i havent seen him or what. But i feel like we go in circles with the relationship. I just dont think i can break up with him..or even if i need too!!!!...I like him alot ...but for some reason i feel bored. This past week hes been able to come over everyday. But i still feel bored. Im Sooooo confused, he likes me alot..and its a greeeeeat relationship we dont fight at all, and like i said here lately hes been able to do stuff and call me..but i just feel so bored with it. Like seeing him just doesnt excite me like it used to!..WHATS WRONG!?!?! it time for a break up?!?!....also friends and other ppl...are bring me down about redating him..telling me how gay he is ..etc

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His mother had very good reasons for grounding him. Underage alcohol consumption is illegal. Even if he wasn't planning to use it himself, was he abetting illegal alcohol use? He could end up in prison. I'm 100% with his mom on this.

As for if you're bored with him, you're bored. End it now and don't draw out the agony. He has enough problems to deal with right now.

I do not feel obliged to believe that the same God who has endowed us with sense, reason, and intellect has intended us to forgo their use.

- Galileo

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