Just yesturday I asked my bf of 6 months that I needed 'time' because im not sure about what I feel for him. I feel like I got bored of the same things all the time and I know that I dont 'love' him like he does. I do like the guy, but he's not someone I see myself in the future with. Sometimes I feel like just leaving him because of the way that I feel, but then I wonder if im going to regret it later and theres nothing I can do to get him back. I need 'time' so that I can have time to myself and get my mind straight about what I really want. Is it a right thing to do? What do you think about the 'time' situation? I did tell him how I felt,,,so he knows the business.
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I just recently did the same thing. I was kind of bored with my relationship, complacent with it. I do love him, but I wasn't sure if I was still in love with him. We ended up breaking up the next day. I think giving yourself some time to think is fine, as long as you're open with your boyfriend and explain everything.
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