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i very recently had an abortion after having sex with someone at a party. today, i wanted 2 have sex with my current bf and it hurt so we had to stop...but he didnt want to, he said i shud put up w/it and keep going. after arguing 4 a while, i finally convinced him but even b4 while i was pregnant, he was always asking me for sex and i think he might just be using me for his sexual pleasure. he never asked 4 sex b4 i told him i luved him and hes been wantin it nearly everyday and gets mad at me wen i dont want it. he has even threatened 2 break up w/me if i didnt do it w/him so i give in as i really do luv him but i dont think i can put up w/this anymore. any help or advice needed please!!!
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Girl is all up to you to " give it up " and if he knew about your problem well he should understand . and if you wanted to stop and told him and he didnt want to well.. hes really just in for the sexual pleassure leave him before he starts giving you worce threats.. and gets physical. and hurt you really bad.
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Honey, this boy FORCED YOU TO HAVE SEX less than ONE DAY after an abortion.

By doing so, not only has he potentially seriously harmed your health, and put you at a much higher risk of infection, he has effectively raped you, and you have allowed him to do so.

There's nothing to love here.

Get away from this person NOW.

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Basically yes, it seems like this guy is using you. He forced you to have sex with him when you didn't want to and it was painful, honestly you do NOT want to be in a relationship with this kind of person, especially if he is threatening to break up with you everytime you are not willing to have sex with him...get away from this guy as soon as possible.
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