Hey this is for all the ladies... but guys can answer to..i have noticed that when you play hard to get a guy wants you more...is that true? and if so how can you play hard to get but still let the guy know that your interested, and that you like him at the same time? I liked this guy and he liked me but i think that i made it easy for him to get me so he lost interest really fast...how can i fix that?
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I think to a certain point, playing hard to get does work. Taking something off the table makes you more comfortable with it and therefore more open to the idea.
I'm not a big advocate for playing hard to get when it comes to relationships. I advocate keeping the lines of communications open. Don't play games. However, once you're in the relationship, the whole game of cat and mouse can be fun.
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