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ok well i just ask her out and she said yea kool right / well theres only one other problem i dont have anything to say to her and always gets akward and it suck /ive seen guys who can chat up a girl but iam not good at that can some 1 help?
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TheCagedOne
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What are you interested in?
What is she interested in?

I assume that you share some common interests with this girl(since you asked her out). Those interests are great starting points for conversation.

If that doesn't help you get over some of the awkwardness, try going somewhere fun like Minigolf, or shopping, or something else you enjoy. Sometimes just being someplace where you can let loose will loosen you up enough that the conversation just flows.

Good luck!

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seeing a movie is a great date that doesn't require a lot of talk. then after the movie, you can talk about it, saving you from having to come up with a discussion topic.

what do you usually talk about with your friends? you might be able to talk about that with the girl.

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quote:
Originally posted by TheCagedOne:
What are you interested in?
What is she interested in?

I assume that you share some common interests with this girl(since you asked her out). Those interests are great starting points for conversation.

If that doesn't help you get over some of the awkwardness, try going somewhere fun like Minigolf, or shopping, or something else you enjoy. Sometimes just being someplace where you can let loose will loosen you up enough that the conversation just flows.

Good luck!


thanx for the advice ill try that and hope it worx lots of thanx


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quote:
Originally posted by Gumdrop Girl:
seeing a movie is a great date that doesn't require a lot of talk. then after the movie, you can talk about it, saving you from having to come up with a discussion topic.

what do you usually talk about with your friends? you might be able to talk about that with the girl.


well we have the same musick


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