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I went to a party two days ago and met this guy who asked me out and everything is going well there, but when he came over today it seemed really awkward. I know I need to get to know him better, but I was wondering how can I let him know that I am comfortable with hium holding my hand and stuff like that? I talked to some of his friends who are also my friends and they say that he is really shy and is afraid of doing something I won't be ok with. I want to know how to clue him in without turning it into a VERY awkward conversation. Thanks!
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Michelle Ravel
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You might want to consider taking his hand yourself. Then you don't have to say anything.
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you can always turn to him, say something kinda funny then take old of both his hands while looking at him and talking in the cute sort of relaxed way, he'll know ur totally comfortable and cool and fun, he needs to be confident with girls, like you! He'll know that youre not the kind of girl thats high maintenance and rates a guy on wat he does or doesnt do. So dont be afraid of being spontaneos with this guy let him no its easy! Hope youre getting my :P Smile alot when talking to him to...
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